RedGiant : commit violence
It is tempting to see what you do next as an expression of true maturity. The enticing siren's call is always heard, to see and present an act of violence performed by the nonviolent as a development towards the true ideal self: an independent, angry man, capable of great harm when sufficiently provoked. This, of course, is untrue. To react with ruthless and massive violence when confronted with a challenging problem is something you would do if you hadn't experienced intellectual puberty yet.
You are not very good at planning, analyzing, or leading, like your friends. And, to be honest, you're pretty dogshit at remembering things. But you devoted yourself to the development of the soul and the heart. You learned to support your beloved team, your family, in their times of pain and trouble, and keep their times of contentment long and stable. You learned to be there for them, and to listen, and to express the kindness they deny themselves.
You learned to take decisive action to support them, as much as they need and not too much. You learned to do it without hesitation. It is rare that this action must be violence, but when it is, you decisively apply it, and figure out how much is needed to help your family in the moment.